Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 24, 2019

Social Media


Social Media

Social media, a world built on half truths, half bullshit and a whole lot of vanity. Everyone wants their fifteen minutes of fame on this platform we have at our disposal. A chance for the recognition for something that half the time is invaluable and a bitch cry and moan statement that most of the time is for nothing. Now let's not get it twisted, there is some valuable information to be had and some interesting things to be seen. If you can wade through all the click bait and lies which is very time consuming, and yeah half the internet is like that, so it's take everything you see and read with a grain of salt and a lot of google searching. Let's look at the other side of it too. Coming from a man's point of view there are a lot of beautiful ladies to be seen and gazed upon.  Sorry ladies anything you write above a pic you post we're not reading. We're just checking you out and trying to get into your pants. Let's look at the other side of that coin, you are checking us out too, your just much more subtle about it. Which is probably a good thing because if women thought like men, we would all be in a big pile somewhere! So as I was saying, it's all just mostly whining, complaining, gossiping and looking for recognition for something that is substandard, irrelevant or just complete bullshit and I'll save all the political headaches for another post. That in itself is a whole other mess that requires far more thought and Jack Daniels to deal with at this moment. So I digress again. We all want to be heard and recognized, no matter what the cost of dignity or whatever moral. The big thing is we all tend to forget that there is a much bigger world outside, with far greater and better things to be seen other than staring at our phones and wondering what the latest trend or gossip is. I'm guilty of it myself at times and get caught up in it. But I am humbly reminded after awhile that there are better sights to be seen and lessons to be learned outside of a phone screen. And my biggest issue with social media and technology is that there are far better ways to interact with people and have a more meaningful conversation. We are forgetting more and more how to have an intelligent face to face conversation. We have lost the dialect, energy and eye contact, that is a face to face conversation, not just words on a screen. Now I use it myself for a quick message but in my opinion it shouldn't be used for a full on conversation about something interesting and or important. We have become hermits with a screen full of words and a pic for conversation. Setting all that aside, that is what we're missing, a sit down face to face conversation with eye contact and dialogue. We have truly forgotten how to interact with one another and just take an interaction and the energy of  social settings for granted.This is my opinion and yes I could be completely wrong about all this, but there is a lot more honesty, truth, life and energy in a face to face conversation. It allows us to read each other better, and an energy that cannot be replicated through a phone and body language and facial expressions that are overlooked.Try it out and think about it, I might be right.
 In closing as I said before, there are good qualities to be had for any social media platform but ruling out face to face conversations shouldn't be one of them. Food for thought.


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Tuesday, October 22, 2019

The Thief Of Joy


The Thief Of Joy

Comparison is the thief of joy-Theodore Roosevelt. This is one of my favorite quotes and a rule I live by.

I see so many people chasing the same dreams and goals as everyone else around them and it seems hollow to me. Wanting what everyone else has and trying to be like every reality tv star or whatever flavor of the moment is being fed to them. I see less and less originality as time goes on or maybe I am just looking in the wrong places. Most people don't want to go down their own path and make their own mark in this life. Most likely this is due to fear of failure and rejection, and not being in their comfort zone.

The money, possessions, fame and anything that you have strived and worked for will one day be left behind for someone else, or be forgotten. Stop and ask yourself this question, "Is it worth it? Or are you doing this because it's the safe route of mediocrity?" "Does it bring joy and passion to my life and the people around me?" If it does bring joy, passion and a sense of accomplishment, then your life will have meaning and purpose.

That's not to say that everyone around you will understand, whether it be friends, family, or co-workers. If they don’t follow their dreams, they were probably too scared to go out and chase after their passion and are more than liking scared that you will be more successful than they are, or happier.

There will also be trials, hardships, uphill battles and failures along your path. Do not shy away from them! That's were the life lessons are learned and the wisdom is earned. In all honesty, we all need these hardships and failures to not only appreciate success but to learn. You need to be tested, challenged, and above all you need to learn from your failures. The best lessons in life come from failure and the wisdom comes from the retrospect. If you can learn from your mistakes, use them to your advantage, help others with it, and not repeat the same mistakes, then these failures had purpose.
In other words, find the joy in your life by doing what you love and are passionate about. Accept and learn from the failures and successes along the way. Do not shy away from it, embrace it. Your life will have meaning and purpose.

Eric Val
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