New Year, New Me, Why Wait?

New Year, New Me, Why Wait?

Why does everyone wait until January 1st to start changing themselves for the better? To set goals, to start working out, or to make a major change? It's never made much sense to me. Why waste all that time waiting on that day? Get started the moment you feel inspired and never stop. The thing about all this is people get discouraged quickly, they expect instant results. Life never works that way, everything worth having takes time, effort, setbacks, failures and learning. With that comes great appreciation for what you have accomplished and a very low chance of taking it for granted. Think about it, when someone just gives you something you tend to not appreciate it for the simple reason that you didn't earn it. You did not put the time, effort, knowledge and or passion into achieving this, so you have no reason to appreciate it. Right? Yet we know all this and still give up so easy on what we set out to do once it gets too hard or failure presents itself. It all boils down to you and what you are prepared to go through to achieve what you want and have a true appreciation for it in the end.

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The Thief Of Joy

The Thief Of Joy

Comparison is the thief of joy-Theodore Roosevelt. This is one of my favorite quotes and a rule I live by.

I see so many people chasing the same dreams and goals as everyone else around them and it seems hollow to me. Wanting what everyone else has and trying to be like every reality tv star or whatever flavor of the moment is being fed to them. I see less and less originality as time goes on or maybe I am just looking in the wrong places. Most people don't want to go down their own path and make their own mark in this life. Most likely this is due to fear of failure and rejection, and not being in their comfort zone.

The money, possessions, fame and anything that you have strived and worked for will one day be left behind for someone else, or be forgotten. Stop and ask yourself this question, "Is it worth it? Or are you doing this because it's the safe route of mediocrity?" "Does it bring joy and passion to my life and the people around me?" If it does bring joy, passion and a sense of accomplishment, then your life will have meaning and purpose.

That's not to say that everyone around you will understand, whether it be friends, family, or co-workers. If they don’t follow their dreams, they were probably too scared to go out and chase after their passion and are more than liking scared that you will be more successful than they are, or happier.

There will also be trials, hardships, uphill battles and failures along your path. Do not shy away from them! That's were the life lessons are learned and the wisdom is earned. In all honesty, we all need these hardships and failures to not only appreciate success but to learn. You need to be tested, challenged, and above all you need to learn from your failures. The best lessons in life come from failure and the wisdom comes from the retrospect. If you can learn from your mistakes, use them to your advantage, help others with it, and not repeat the same mistakes, then these failures had purpose.
In other words, find the joy in your life by doing what you love and are passionate about. Accept and learn from the failures and successes along the way. Do not shy away from it, embrace it. Your life will have meaning and purpose.

Eric Val
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